My fiance wants to join the army and I want to support her but I am worried the guys there will be all over her. She is incredibly attractive, short and slim with brown hair and brown eyes.
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Shit! the bitch has a black hole as a face!!
I'd still bone though - will have to think about it, after them military dudes finish raping her.

Is anyone here actually in the army and can talk about the culture a little? I am hoping that guys will lay off a bit if she tells them shes engaged. I just dont know why she feels the need to even do this.

You know when 9/11 happened .. all the hero pussy switched right?
Well since the war .. it's switched again - and I'll let you guessed who it's gone too.
Now if you do the maths .. The rest should be crystal clear.

Im in the Army. Even though we have a proud tradition of respect we will also want to use her asa fuck toy and with someit happens. We have some pretty persuasive men in my unit. If she ends up in a unit like mine she will be servig more than her country. We will be serving her cunt

but even though she is engaged? what would your unit do if the guys hit on her and she said "sorry, im engaged"? would they leave it alone?
Trust me, she'd only resist for a little while. After some gentle persuasion she'd become a filthy little cock craving cumdump fuckslut for us. Tell her to try to get stationed at Ft Riley. I'll give her a proper welcum.. or if not, Ft Bragg and Ft Drum always, always, always has tons of affairs going on every day. All it takes is the right number of drinks at a party.. and thats just the first time. After that she'll do it sober. She'll crave the cock. It's what we do. But don't worry. We'll still send her home to you when we're finished. We may all cum in her mouth and send her home to give you a long, deep kiss but it's ok. That's what you deserve anyway. To taste her sluttiness on her lips. :)
have you been living under a rock your whole life or are you just restarted, most men wont care if a woman is married, let alone engaged, all they care about is there dicks. most people only pretend to have morals because they are scared of what people will think of them or treat them if they don't, but as soon as they can do something without being found out by anyone that matters to them they'll do all kinds of fucked up things. your only choice is to tell her it's you or the military. if she chooses military fuck her sisters, her mom, anyone she hates with a passion because engaged or not, she will become a cum slut there.

she will get ragged all over the place, and thats 100% certain

seriously dude she will be ok nobody will hurt her there are laws against it

Thanks. yea i dont think they would rape her or anything. just kinda worried there will be guys there trying to seduce her and flirt with her or more. I am pretty sure she would just say no though, its just hard to think about because I know if she is deployed for a long time with them she will get horny.

There will be accidental touching. Phone sex is only good for so long. Kind of hard to get satisfied when lot of guys around with dominating presence.
Lot of drunk orgies at the army club.
I would just accept the fact she will be a cum bag and just not think of it. Or prevent er from joining. There isn't anything else to choose from.

Im in the army and ive lost count of the married, engaged in a raltionhip sluts ive ended up fucking. If she koins up, she will be sucking cock and riding pole within the first weekend. Fact!

You should definitely prevent her from joining the military. There's also the fact that there's quite a bit of rape in the military, that is the rape of soldiers by other higher ranking soldiers. There was a big case about it not to long ago. If she wants to serve and protect you should try to convince her to be a cop, a much more safe occupation.

Fuck it.. move on and find someone else while she is in camp. If she is away for awhile and loves to have sex you dont think she would... yeah!!! Find you another girl..

Would she be able to bring her vibrator on deployment? I think it would be easier to stay faithful if she had that because she does get pretty horny.

Love to see a reality show about this girl joining the army. Watch her face as she first realizes shes going to get fucked.

i AM in the army. I am going to find your fiance and fuck her and make her my bitch fucking her into submission. Then I will share her with other guys. Anyone want her after me?

OP, no offense but you should start looking for a new girl. Let her go and start finding a new one. If shes going to end up banging some guy later on, you wanna take your chance and marry her?
Divorce is over 50% in the West already. You must be stupid to risk it.Find new girl.

21 year retired Army here And I have 2 things to tell you:
1. If she goes in the Army, you are out.
2. You sound like a pussy so you are probably on the way out now.

Im not a pussy. why is it an automatic out if she joins?
i was in the Army. the military, regardless of branch binge drinks to the point that it makes college look like an AA meeting. i was married and had kids, but married and unmarried women hit on me. i was faithful to my wife, but there was only one chick in our AIT (after basic training MOS training) that I couldn't CONFIRM slept with someone. for every guy like me, that is not going to cheat on their wife/gf/with someone who's spoken for, there are 99 other guys with no qualms about it. I literally had to walk away from some pretty steaming situations where I was cornered by sober or drunk girls. and the crazy thing about, i never got that attention before the Army, I was not a chick magnet. your fiancee is going to be surrounded by guys who are in the best physical condition of their lives. most of them are not like me, they were predatory guys that told chicks what ever they wanted to hear just to get laid or a bj. But, what I don't understand about you my friend, is that I knew that this was the military atmosphere at the age of 12 in middle school, when i wanted to be a fighter pilot (didn't happen). my guess is, you fiancee is looking for a surefire way to get some hot military guys cocks before she has to settle down and be exclusive for you. the worst part is, she'll never forget the crazy, awesome sex she gets from the guys there. my guess is, she'll try to be exclusive to you after her tour is up, but will constantly be thinking about other cocks, until she ultimately goes looking for it. let me put it this way, my wife considers the sex we had when I was just out of basic training/AIT as the best sex of our marriage. so, when your fiancee loses the self control battle the first time, the flood gates will be opened. no matter how much she loves you, nor how much she tries to resist, she's going be riding bareback like a rodeo champ.
Rise to the occasion
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My wife and I weren't married when I was serving but we had an open and trusting relationship. I knew she was fucking other guys while I was on deployment because she'd send me pictures and blow by blow accounts of what she'd been up to. I'd return the favour by sending her pictures of female colleagues I'd fucked along with all the horny details. When I came home on leave, I'd sometimes bring female colleagues home with me, particularly if my wife had expressed an interest in them and we'd arrange threesomes and foursomes with some of her boy toys and my colleagues.

She is sexy. She will definitely become the slut of her unit.

put her in her place tie her to the bed and fuck the shit out of her every day in every hole and if she have to go to the bathroom tie her hands together and make her crawl to the bathroom and while shes doing what ever shes doing make her suck your dick while she useing the tolit and anywhere you have her tied up in the house keep her naked at all times and after about 2 to 3 months she'll do whatever you say no matter what it is and make sure not to take a break from fucking her she might think she has a chance to get everything back to normal

Hey man im a 21 yr old college student in communication classes right now and ill tell you exactly what goes through my mind when i read this post of yours... FIRST, the very fact that you are on here asking us this question says A LOT. you will never ever get a weird feeling about something for no reason. SECOND, This is most likely what shes thinking also.. girls are ALL wolves in sheep's skin. This is probably her way out of the relationship and maybe (ahh sorry to say bro) her fantasy that she is actually playing out. :( getting fucked by hot army dudes. god it makes me sick to write this but you need to wake up like i did with my ex. SERIOUSLY if she loves you she wouldnt have even mentioned this little fucked up plan of hers. dont put your head in the sand. Heres your way to FACE IT, 1. say hey babe i feel this way about you going to the army.. dudes fucking you, you dying, me not being in your life ect. 2. If this is your way out, just break it off with me now and go on your way otherwise its over RIGHT THIS MINUTE because i wont put up with this (you have ZERO self esteem or self respect to be her safety net for returning from her most likely, short lived fantasy) Dont be a victim man.. stick up for yourself and DO NOT put up with this. you want an army slut to be your wife... :/ hell no. shes not worth a lifetime of heartache. dont let crocodile tears change your mind.. you are a human and you have one life to live. live it with someone who wants to share something special with YOU, not the army

If she doesn't fuck a guy it's because she's fucking a lady friend.

Now you should really share some nudepics of her, for all the great advice you got..

I love reading this shit by people who don't know shit except second hand information or what they garner from internet forums and printed ones about sexual hijinks in the military. i served 21 years before retiring and can tell you the facts...
1) the rates of rape, sexual harassment, murder, assault.. and etc. are actually lower among military personnel then the general population, even way lower then those found on college campuses.
2)The UMCJ has definite parts concerning such, including the fact Adultry is a punishable crime.
3) It is against the rules and regulations for such in ones own chain, between the various ranks, and etc.
4) You do not have time for it... on base or deployed. Military life is carefully regimented.. menaing your fucking schedule is always filled, it is not an 8 hour job. There's cleaning, PT, training, classes on a variety of things, so on and etc.
5) it does get boring in arepetitive sort of way.. but not where it makes for a lot of extra time. At the end of a day you are tired enough to sleep peacefully... though you can wake up and be alert in an instance. Even clerical jobs require a lot of work and doing stuff to meet the physical tests and etc given yearly. Een combat zones are roughly 90% boredom and 10% adrenaline fueld chorography... even if to civilians it may look like chaos incarnate... if it is that, then people have been too lax.
6) Most of what people believe is due to movies, Tv shows, the biased against the military news media, and bullshit spread by servicemen and women themselve sto make their jobs look more exciting because of the attention they get.
Examples. Watch Heartbreak Ridge... even with Clint eastwood basically retraining his men hasrhly, they had a lot of fucking downtime. Doesn't happen. When on base and on duty, you are kept busy except when sleeping... outside of your job, the things you have to stay up on can be pretty rough.. like PT, time on the firing range, keeping things ready for inspections. Now, there is time for joking around and such, part of the whole bonding process and keeping each other on their toes..go find skippy's list oinline and you'll see.
It is not a matter of mixed horny sexes being thrown together.. most military people wait for when on pass or off duty and off base... and know what can happen if they break the rules. A common theme in the sexual forums... one to three women for one reason or another end up in a barracks and provide an entire nights entertainment to the troops.. keep dreaming. First of all, I have rarely heard military personnel call quarters barracks... next. When in such quarters the enlisted men may share a large room for sleeping quarters, or may be doled out in groups throughout rooms.. but no matter what there is always a "fire watch' on duty... taken from the old times when soldiers were tasked with keeping a fire going all night and such. Now noncoms get their own quarters, but some may be house din private rooms in the same building a sthe enlisted, especially corporals or might not.. but whether they are or not.. one is always tasked with checking the quarters throughout a night to make sure the watch is being maintained and etc... whether the enlisted men ever realise it or not... and officers will also do this as well. It's making sure people are doing what they should be... and if their was a gang bang going on, heads would roll.
21 years in, mostly at the same base stateside.. how many of these occurances happened.. zilch. How many were rumoured to happen..zilch. How many times did I hear the stories being told... numerous times to naive morons. How many times did we bust unauthorised personnel in quarters, and remember only those assigned and their officers and noncoms are authorised along with IG's... several.. and always within moments of them being so. How many army sluts were rumoured? Every single female in because women are nasty towards each other in ways men are not and men who get shot down also like spreading ugly rumours about women... as seen in high school where often one girl can be rumoured as a slut but is a virgin in all ways. How many verified ones.. none. But that's because i don't consider sexually active females sluts... we did have many females that were sexually active outside of their military life, meaning they'd go out just like the guys on a pass and try and get as much dick as they could... and an odd fact. Most female military members do not huant the same places male ones do when on pass or off base.
So don't believe what you hear.. it's basically a matter of trust.. and another statistic to keep in mind..most military divorces are not because of what the one in unirform did, but what the one at home did. I'm not saying it doesn't happen the other way around, but in cases of cheating, it is usually the civilian spouse who did it.
Oh a note about the whole adultry thing..when the war on terror started, since w ewere being deployed as part of it... to help spouses while we were gone volunteers were asked among reservists and guards men and women to help the families left behind... and they were point blank told any and all rumours of impropriety would be investigated and if found true they would face the harshest penalties they can get. So ignore the idiots trying to play to your fears... and realise it's about trust between her and you and nothing else.

Dam dude .. fucking expect us to read that thesis ...

obviously, you weren't a combat journalist, if you were really in the military at all. i visited my brother and sister many times when they were stationed at camp pendleton. they called their 'military apartments' barracks all the time, just like the single males and females in the Army did. plus, since I able to get my paperwork through before the freeze in '03, I never was deployed to an active combat zone. The most intense duty station was the DMZ in Korea, and the tension there most days was about as bad as an elementary playground.
My brother did two tours in Iraq, and my sister did one in Kuwait, being female. Although my brother saw some action, he said most of his time was like mine, sitting around with nothing to do.
My guess is, that one, you were never in the military; two, you were in the nasty guard; or three, you were active duty, but every outside of the military, you've never had sex, and are such a loser that no one ever invited you to go to the bars on leave...ever talked to you when you guys had leave.
Everybody who actually has been in the military knows that there countless tales of people being raped, and/or endure all kinds of sexual harassment. The fact that you don't know about this means you either are really stupid...as your spelling yells out; or you have lived your entire life with your head up your ass!
Rise to the occasion

Seriously? I don't know what branch you served in, what your MOS was, or what time period you were in, but this could not be more inaccurate to the Army I have spent the last 16 years and counting in. Where to begin?
2) The UCMJ, or Uniform Code of Military Justice, does indeed have coverage for adultery. However, it practically takes an act of God to get someone punished for it. Now you damn near have to have video footage of them mid-stroke to prosecute, and even then it's not a sure thing.
3) Rules about those in ones chain and of various ranks. To a degree, yes. But these days it's really only about Officers with Enlisted unless its an E6 or above with a PVT in his direct supervisory care. And that doesn't even begin to talk about all the other E4 & below in the barracks she will be around every day. On more than one occasion at Ft Bragg I walked into a barracks room to find a female on a bed in the middle of the room with anywhere from 4 to 7 guys running a train on her. Which brings me to the next one.
4) Don't have time for it? You think we keep busy for so long that all we do when we get off is sleep? Wow. We now do pt from 0630 to 0730, then work from 0900 to 1700 with 60 to 90 minutes for lunch. And that's almost always Monday to Friday only. Training and classes, when they do happen, happen during those work hours while nothing else gets done. A little cleaning happens after duty hours, but that's mainly on Sunday nights for barracks folk, and even that's barely an hour if that. From 5pm to 6am plus all weekends I've got nothing but time to mess around, and trust me, I'm far from "too tired".
5) Combat zones are entirely different than when you were in as well. To start with, as a female, unless she joins up in these new female combat arms MOS's, she'll almost certainly be in some sort of support MOS, which means she'll be staying on the FOB with all the other maintenance guys etc. (This also applies to Garrison as well. Support means working with support guys, who are off at 5pm most every day.) For the fobbits, every day is staving off boredom any way you can. You're not patrolling, kicking in doors or catching bullets. You're sitting. Waiting for something to fix. The boredom makes your mind turn to sex, no matter what your gender. We had three pregnancies downrange this last deployment just in my small unit. One is married as well, but she took care of it while on R&R, so the chain of command no longer had any proof of adultery.
6) Again with this no downtime thing. Kept busy except when sleeping? Apparently you've never been to a Walmart in a military town recently during the day. They're full of guys in uniform shopping because they have nothing else to do at that moment. Same at malls. In fact, everywhere in a military community you'll find more Soldiers than you will actually AT work.
You've rarely heard quarters called barracks? Married people live in housing, single people live in barracks. That's all there is. On most bases they do NOT share a large room anymore. Most bases have large rooms for two Soldiers, although many now have single Soldier rooms.. most with their own bathroom (rare to use the word latrine now as well) and kitchenette. The days of men living in bays and 8 man rooms are dead and gone except for in Basic training and a few AIT's. Same goes with Fire Watch. That's a dead practice except for Basic training. At permanent duty stations there are CQ desks, but that's simply to keep fights and rapes at a minimum. When on CQ, you do perform checks, but only the security of the common doors to ensure they're locked. A gang bang could and often does- happen in rooms with the CQ remaining blissfully unaware of it. Of course some times they do find out, and pop in to get some quick head. Its a reality of today's Army. I've actually seen a female Soldier finish in one room with two guys, leave, go knock at the next room and play in there, and repeat in a third room before deciding she had enough. Welcome to maintenance. Most military females don't "haunt" the same places off post that males do? You really haven't been in a military community recently have you? It's all soldiers- male and female- going to the same five clubs and bars. And another thing. Why the hell do you talk so much about pass? Passes are much less common. Folks go to off post bars on weeknights now, and the weekends? Well.. let's just say we party our asses off out here.
One more thing, in all three of my combat deployments we had guard/reservists brought in to support families. Mainly guard MPs. I gotta tell you, there were so many of them fucking wives it was actually disturbing. They set up things for the wife to put in the window to signify they were available or not. Its kind of wild, but it's part of the military lifestyle. So yeah, to say that people are talking about what they don't know? Hmm..
What he said, USAF EOD retired here. We even had our own groupies (70% active military, 30% military wives). Had more flings while deployed/TDY than when home. Have no doubt my wife did the same while I was gone. Long story short it is stress relief and it happens. By the way if you stay in this relationship, never show up unannounced, it is not romantic and you may see something you don't want to see. Just assume it is happening. Don't think op is real but if you are DEAL with it or get out of the relationship. You can't handle the truth! (Sorry couldn't help it, just watched the movie the other night.)

I served 5 years in the Marines.
To the guy above me its the UCMJ not umcj.
We call them barracks.
The chances of her cheating on you are much greater than the chances that she wont.
We had more than enough downtime to go fuck some chick if need be.
If not our fellow marines would cover for us in the event we were elsewhere getting a quicky.
She will have a group of 10 to 20 guys following her around like horny pathetic lil boys waiting for her to pick one. It is quite pathetic to see in person trust me.
Her first two to three weeks with her new unit will be the most likely she will cheat. Getting drunk with new people and not knowing anything about them usually guarantees her spreading her legs. Saw it happen wayyy too many times.
After that time she gets to know them better along with their downfalls. Doesnt mean she won't continue though. And even if she does fuck a guy and the other ten of her followers hear about it
They will just continue to try harder to get in her pants.
Saying all that it is possible for her to be faithful thru military life. Goodluck she looks like a cutie.

Don't forget the bases are one thing.. but not all showers are separate once they are deployed and in remote areas :)

She would be like every person and in a moment of crisis allow the wrong guy to give her attention. People need attention, excitement, and security so in the military even though it is a collection of pawns somebody will be capable of doing such a thing. She will cheat and it is likely you will as well. The brain isn't even done maturing until your mid 20's so you'd be a complete non scientific douche to marry before 25.
Clearly she has no education or job skills... joining the military to fight a war nobody asked for and buying into the jack-off idea of nationalism is a sign you should bail on her. Pussy is everywhere.
I so wish we would cut the military to only elite forces that have a true purpose. Most of the military members are social rejects and people that couldn't get a job. Fake tough losers from what I have seen.
Finally, fuck all this motherless forum life advice too. This is where I post women I have fucked, not jump at the chance to talk about counseling issues.
People are fucking dumb.

USAF EOD retired here, So happy that many Soldiers, Marines, Sailors (almost said seamen, sorry navy boys couldn't resist) and Airmen served so you can have your opinion and freedom of speech. Wait I have freedom of speech too, FUCK YOU!!!!!
Oh wait, kudos to the Coast Guard, Boarder Patrol, PD and FD too!

Marines are the biggest fucking joke as well. Were you in Recon? Ok then shut the fuck up, anyone could do what you accomplished. Most people have simply evolved passed the point on wanting to kill illiterate and underprivileged people for the 1%'s gain.

What if she wants to fuck? What if shes cool with you fucking too? Do you love her?

Eh, everyone cheats in one way or another. So what? Its just sex.

I say let her go if it's something she really wants, support her, make sure you're there for her when she needs you. Don't fret so much about some bullshit you may have heard about military women being passed around like sluts. They are human, they are mostly young. The shit that happens among young people that age is going to happen less so when she's deployed. If she gets stationed state-side, she would likely be able to live off base with you and come home nearly every night.

I would love to hear how many hours passes before she spreads her legs and becomes a slut for our heroes.

every girl who gos to the army ends up getting knocked up or boned by a ton of dudes. just know when she comes back from the army she for sure slept with a minimum of 10 guys and thats if she isnt a whore.

You guys are really starting to make me worried about this. I know a lot of you are just trying to mess with me and are joking. Thanks for the advice, I know some girls have sex and get a little crazy but I trust her and I think she will be fine.
Maybe some are trying to fuck with you but not all of us are. Haven't you read anything about military wives etc. The stats do add up. Sorry to bring it to you like this man.
i'm not trying to fuck with you dude. i was in the service, and I could be beatified as a saint for performing the miracle of remaining faithful to my wife. you don't understand dude. at basic, you go through a lot of shit. even ten years later, after my time in the Army, I still can only relate to other military service members. after basic, you go through way more shit. your fiance, even if she loves you and wants to be faithful, is going to relate better to other service members, just because people bond over a crisis. you best bet is to find a recruiter that can hook up basic training and AIT for the both of you. in my humble opinion, unless your fiancee has an unbreakable incredibly strong urge to remain faithful, and a shitload of resolve, she will slip up at least once. I was in the Army, but my brother and sister were in the Marine corps. to this day, my brother is a man whore. we were raised in a strict religious family where you didn't even kiss until you were married. my sister is the the most religious of the three of us. she tried hard, but after she got knocked up in the corps, she marrried the 'best' of the men she was fucking. god help her if her husband ever does a paternity test! best of luck dude, but I hope you didn't buy and expensive ring.
Rise to the occasion

Ive fucked 6 broads while serving in the coast guard. drunk fucked 4 of them and they cried rape but nothing happened to me.

I was a Drill Sergeant and a Platoon Sergeant, served in the Army for 17+ years. I will tell you that around 50% of the females who joined were trying to get out of a relationship and thought the military was the "easy" way to get out. The others were either looking for college money, or legitimately wanted to serve.
Your girlfriend, no matter what the reason, will be doing something that will improve her self-esteem, confidence, and independence. She will have very little in common with the girl you knew after her Basic and AIT training is done. The hard fact is this- she will have had a multitude of new experiences that you can not begin to relate with. The biggest problem for people dating new recruits is that nothing changes for them, but the person who joined is now completely different, and sees them as not doing anything with their lives - honestly more women than men feel this way.
Drill Sergeants are trained to build up recruits confidence and self reliance and I saw a large percentage of females dump their boyfriends after Basic Training. Some who kept their boyfriends then dumped them after AIT. Most gave the reason that they were going to be stationed at "X" Base, and lower enlisted are required to live on post in barracks. That would mean she could only see you when she has leave, around 30 days per year. So unless you are planning to move to live near her, and then see her when she is not on duty (12-16 hour days are not uncommon), deployed, or in "the box" training for 15-30 days in the field, depending on her MOS you will hardly ever see her.

Short and simple, if you let her join the army you will lose her, she'll break up with you over the phone before she's done with all her training. If you were already married, that would only improve you chances about 5%

If I was that girl joining the military that is all i would think about all day everyday is a hot muscular dominant higher ranking officer bending me over his desk and fucking me however he wanted me. Every girl dreams and fantasizes about a dominant man taking what he wants from her. Or better yet have every guy in the barracks fighting for which one would get to fuck me hard and rough.

She wants to spend some time away from you exploring. This doesn't look good. Maybe you should also explore while she is gone.

Look at that body. How long do you really think it will be before those slim legs are over a strong alpha's shoulders?

MMmmm that pic makes me hard. She has no idea what shes in for.

Dont know why you bothered making this post if you are just going to ignore everyone's advice. 95% are saying to either not let her go or to just find a new girl because she will be raped or cheat on you. Instead you are listening to the 2 or 3 people who tell you she will be fine and they are probably just saying that to fuck with you because they want her to get raped.

This guy is a TROLL. This is just a creative way to get people to write stories about chicks in the military getting screwed.....

I think this is hot whether true or not. Hoping it is true and she really tries to resist. :) Of course- then I hope she fails. ;)

The OP is likely talking shit (attention seeking -which he has got), however, even if the mythical girlfriend doesn't screw around with men, she will with other girls. No, I've not been in the army/services but some of my partners/girlfriends have been and have had a lot of fun in single-sex accommodation. Before women soldiers were integrated into regimental units there was the Womens Royal Army Corps which attracted a lot of lesbians who tok it upon them to ensure recruits were properly 'experienced'. The British Navy (WRENS) and RAF seems to had fewer lesbians but girls/women who like the whole uniform and discipline thing have other preferences which go along side them.
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The OP is likely talking shit (attention seeking -which he has got), however, even if the mythical girlfriend doesn't screw around with men, she will with other girls. No, I've not been in the army/services but some of my partners/girlfriends have been and have had a lot of fun in single-sex accommodation. Before women soldiers were integrated into regimental units there was the Womens Royal Army Corps which attracted a lot of lesbians who took it upon them to ensure recruits were properly 'experienced'. The British Navy (WRENS) and RAF seems to had fewer lesbians but girls/women who like the whole uniform and discipline thing have other preferences which go along side them.
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Rape in the US armed forces is very common. It's like 1 in 4. War fucks the women up in more than one way.

don't let her man she will be a target for gangbangs

What does she state are her reasons for wanting to join?

She says it is because she needs adventure and wants to serve her country.

oh she'll get adventure when guys like Me are hitting on her every single day. Her first weekend off she'll go to an off-post bar dressed to the 9's, get completely shitfaced and end up being spitroasted by two guys like Me. She'll feel guilty and that whole 2nd week she won't say much to you, but when she does it will be quiet and distant but extra nice. The very next weekend after that though she'll be back out there, climbing back in the saddle, trying to prove to herself that it was a one-time drunk mistake. Except it will happen again. Maybe one guy this time, maybe three. Either way, it will make her realize that the 'adventure' she was seeking just doesn't involve you in the picture. If you're lucky you can be the blissfully ignorant boyfriend, getting to fuck her once every few months pretending you don't notice how much looser she is from being ran through by guys like Me. If she's *really* dirty, she may get fucked the same day you visit her and have you go down on her, wondering why she seems extra wet when really it's other mens cum. You've got three choices. 1) Break up with her. 2) Join up yourself or at least man up and don't act like a pussy around her. 3) Start to enjoy life as a cuckold. The choice is yours.