i've been thinking about what happened all day. i've never felt guilty playing the game with him because we've both been liking it and i don't feel guilty now. i know it sounds bad that i don't feel guilty when it comes to my mom, but i just don't. i don't really want to explain why on here but don't get the wrong idea. i haven't been playing this game to get back at her for some reason. this morning i didn't even do anything flirty or show him any skin. it was all him. yes i know i let him do it but ne started it. the few times we were together today neither one of us said anything about it. there was no flirting either. you mentioned setting limits. in order to do that we would have to talk about it for the first time. i really think it's up to him to say something. i shouldn't have to be the one bring it up. do you agree? also with the limits thing...i have tried that with boys before and it doesn't work. you either go for it or not do anything. i don't want to stop our game but i've decided to cool it at least for a few days and see how i feel about it. i will write more but probably not for a few more days.
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Limits? The game is on. There will be no limits, save for whatever self-control he may have.
But if he wants you, he will take you, and you will give yourself to him. If you are not already on the pill, get there quickly, for he will take you bareback, planting his seed deep in your belly.
From step-dad hoping....Decide how far you are willing to go, what you want from the flirting/teasing. You have leverage, telling mom and ruining his marriage...but that screws up everything for everyone! That is my point in deciding your limits, if any. It is much better to have,and continue having fun with the situation. The two of you did communicate through looks and smiles when he fondled your breasts. My guess is he will continue to look to your reactions for the OK when he pushes the issue next time, make sure it is always that way so you have a better chance to control how far he goes.
it's been exactly a week since my stepdad daddy-ken reached up under my top and felt my boobs when we were in the kitchen. it surprised me when he did it, but it wasn't a total surprise out of nowhere because of all the flirting and teasing i was doing. i won't lie and say i didn't like it when he touched me. i did very much and i would love to do more with him. but i decided to cool it for a few days to think about it and also to see what he would do. nothing has gone on between us since then. i feel like he might think i didn't like it and i gave him the red light because i've stopped the fun flirting and teasing. i want to talk to him about it, but i feel like he should be the one to bring it up. i thought he would by now. maybe he has decided we should stop and we should just act like nothing ever went on. i've decided not to do any teasing. i wish i knew what he is thinking and i hope he comes to talk to me. if he does, i will come on here and write about it. if he doesn't i guess that's it. we're
from stepdad hoping...ken has way more to lose over this then you do, which is why he has not made further advances. He took the bold step to make it physical and you responded in a positive way, then next day turned off the tease. This week has been hell for him not knowing what is going through your mind over the boob feeling. By not pushing the matter he is showing he respects your limits and definitely is waiting for you to make the next move as he is concerned he scared you off.
Your choice what happens next, like it or not. If you want it to continue start teasing again...if you don't want him touching you though two simple words, "no touching", will let him know his limits. Or if you are done with the whole thing leave him alone like your doing now, things will settle down. Or go talk to him about everything and form a decision together. It is definitely your move now, you started it, you settle it.
read what i wrote above this one to the other guy. i didn't start it. we started it together. i don't think it's my move. he's the man and he's obviously a lot older.
from stepdad hoping...It's pretty simple at this point then. Leave things as they are, return to past no teasing relationship. Or start back to teasing him and see where things go. When new things come up, like boob feeling, be clear at that point whether it is permitted or not, so both know. Things will progress I am sure.
