from stepdad hoping...ken has way more to lose over this then you do, which is why he has not made further advances. He took the bold step to make it physical and you responded in a positive way, then next day turned off the tease. This week has been hell for him not knowing what is going through your mind over the boob feeling. By not pushing the matter he is showing he respects your limits and definitely is waiting for you to make the next move as he is concerned he scared you off.
Your choice what happens next, like it or not. If you want it to continue start teasing again...if you don't want him touching you though two simple words, "no touching", will let him know his limits. Or if you are done with the whole thing leave him alone like your doing now, things will settle down. Or go talk to him about everything and form a decision together. It is definitely your move now, you started it, you settle it.
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14 Dec 2013 9:32AM
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14 Dec 2013 9:51PM
read what i wrote above this one to the other guy. i didn't start it. we started it together. i don't think it's my move. he's the man and he's obviously a lot older.
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15 Dec 2013 9:35AM
from stepdad hoping...It's pretty simple at this point then. Leave things as they are, return to past no teasing relationship. Or start back to teasing him and see where things go. When new things come up, like boob feeling, be clear at that point whether it is permitted or not, so both know. Things will progress I am sure.
