thats great thanks, no we dont really hug but will slowly try to bring it in. i do tell her jokes and have told her some dirty ones (she is 18 after all) and she does laugh.
Should i do anything else though, i want to move it on but obviously want to be careful. I read on here all the time about letting them see you come out the shower etc, not neccesarily completely naked but does that ACTUALLY work, i'm quite nervous about it.
I will keep going the slowly route and more help tips will be good. i will keep you up to date with trying the tips you have given so far.
Cheers