Hey man,
Re-read your advice and I might of misinterpreted the ending.
You say "Don't be ambiguous and tell her that you want her to move here (or you're willing to move there)."
Just to clarify, are you saying Don't be ambiguous... and definitely TELL her that I want her to move here, or I could move there? Or are you telling me to NOT tell her that I would move there/she should move here?
FWIW, I have told her I would pickup and move there already... and I've talked to her about if she would ever move out here. Doesn't seem likely she will move to the west coast though. I'd probably have to move out there, which is cool with me.
