i just had a colostomy (medical reason) and i'm single, am i doomed in the sex department.. or what?
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26 Aug 2012 10:48AM
Is your colostomy perminet? I dont know? My ex droke up with me and is now with a guy with an ostomy(Same thing).
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26 Aug 2012 10:57AM
I know a woman who had a colostomy when she was 16, and has been married 2 times already. She is now 35...so you might have a better chance with a woman who has the same thing as you
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27 Aug 2012 8:51PM
..i like this attitude, really i do.. but finding one is not easy. we tend not to talk about it..and we seem to be treated like lepers. i mean it's worse then being a smoker..lol,
anyway it seems like the first guy may be right (hookers) but then again i have got to ask him...why just only hookers, i mean the bag doesn't affect performance (in me at least i hear in some it can ) ..but get my logic..some get people to take a dump on them..other, a piss.. lick them in the nuts..why then not a colostomy bag..kept right its clean.. can be gotten out of the way,
so i have to ask, why should we (colostomy wearers) be single out?
thank you all for your input (no pun intended, or maybe so, i haven't decided yet). and in the meantime if any woman is interested i'm available
:P............
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27 Aug 2012 9:02PM
i like this attitude..i really do..but the problem is we aren't easy to find. we tend not to talk about it lest we treated like a leper..really it's worse then being a smoker..lol, so its not like a club that we meet at for the anally challenged..
maybe the first guys right, hookers, but why..follow my logic for a bit..there are people that allow someone to take a dump on them, piss on them, banged by an animal..and on and on, but mention colostomy, it's like "i like you but, i think we should see others" forget about getting to the sex stage..anyway.
thank you all for your input, so to speak, ( no pun intended,honestly or did i..hmm)
in the mean time any women interested..i'm available..have tounge will travel, pecker slightly used..all the rest seems to be in okay condition only 2 owners
: P...........
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27 Aug 2012 9:07PM
God so you have to carry your poop with you!? What kind of medical reason would force this on you - how old are you - etc?
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27 Aug 2012 9:49PM
medical reason was a ruptured lower intestine (Colon) no real reason that they know of..i was about 46 at the time, so it's not age, mine wasn't crohns related, it just blew, no i'm not overweight, and otherwise am in good health. when it blows like that, the ER physician tells you "we got to operate, or you could die from peritinitus..you have 15 minutes to decide" this while your daughter and wife (ex-now..she couldn't handle it either)are in the waiting room .....
we are out there and in your malls everybody...muwah hah hah hah....
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29 Aug 2012 5:54PM
OP If it does not bother you, chances are it will not bother most women. Good Luck Bro!
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29 Aug 2012 6:42PM
i think you hit on a reason, that i asked the original question, i needed some honest third person input ( again with the input0. so thank you,
no if and's or buts about it, it does bother me psychologically
(everyone has fear of rejection, but this is a taped on reason (i can't change with a personality adjustment or a little tweek to the attitude) and i get that it is other peoples problem, but then it's mine because I am that one that wears it, and I'm the one that deals with the rejection (at this point i guess it would be easy to just resign myself the the first suggestion, but i think i might give it some more time before i do).
anyway i'd like to thank everyone for their replies, even the one i was a little short with, mine is not a problem that's talked about alot and maybe he really didn't know what it was, so i should have cut him/her some slack.
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29 Aug 2012 8:42PM
join ur local colostomy wearers club, you would be suprised at the number of people who wear one.there are also lots of women who wear diapers cause they piss themselves quite regularly, try ur luck with one of them, just hang around the depends area at you local walmart...and have a nice day:)
