12-25 on average, the past 4 months aside, obviously. We are in our late 20s, and have been married for less than 5 years. Here's the real kicker, she has accused me of cheating on her 6 separate times, without me ever having done so, without me having given her a reason to suspect said actions.
the idea that she may be "projecting" has crossed my mind, but she really hasn't had the opportunity, even if she were inclined. She goes to work with a family member of mine, then comes home, so she doesn't really have a chance to sneak off.
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09 Dec 2013 10:35AM
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09 Dec 2013 11:45AM
The question is, do I continue to wait it out, or do i find a mistress? One thing I've been very good at my entire life is not getting caught doing things I shouldn't, so I'd imagine that would hold true (which is part of why I've always found the accusations to be a bit ironic).
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09 Dec 2013 12:10PM
Doctor here. Do you love her? Is this what you want?
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09 Dec 2013 12:44PM
I do love her, but she's also doing me a huge disservice by holding out for such a ridiculous amount of time. The question that comes to mind is: If she loves me, why would she be doing this to me? To further that line of thought, does someone who doesn't love me deserve my fidelity?
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09 Dec 2013 12:47PM
What I want is for her to love and want me the way I love and want her, but that doesn't seem to be in the cards.
