do you care if he records your webcam? pretty much every person who knows that capping exists figures out how to cap.
i know a similar story to yours and the guy has been recording the girl for three years and never has admitted it once.
she wants him to take her virginity too.
he swore long ago that he didnt record her, and while that might seem like a harmless lie, that was the foundation of her trusting him so much more than anyone else she would talk to.