You'll never know why anyone is attracted to anyone. It's just chemistry. Like why you're attracted to writing these posts. Whatever floats your boat my friend.
I did report it, I gave the best description I could, and the police "manhunt" consisted of knocking on 6 doors, and giving up. I went through humiliating hours of questioning and medical examinations, so the police could open a file and close it again.
That's why I'd never report it if it happened again.
That all seems simple enough. I have all those things. So, what's the catch?
It's not easy raising the subject with random men. I used to do "favours for favours" among people I already knew. And from there some of them would offer me cash. It's not something I do any more but it was easy money when I needed it.