Boards - You need to realign your thinking. You say you respect women, all the while calling them bitches an

09 Nov 2011 6:18AM

You need to realign your thinking. You say you respect women, all the while calling them bitches and sluts. You don't respect women - start accepting that first and foremost. Girls rarely say what they actually feel - even more rarely know what they actually want. They love to make easy decisions. Usually the easiest is whatever generates a positive emotional response. If you're with a girl and you talk about her ex - you inadvertently become a embodiment of negative emotions. You aren't making her feel good - because you're allowing her to recant her issues. These issues do need dealt with - but not by you - not if you want to assert yourself as a positive emotional influence. I never guilt-trip a girl, I never try and belittle them - however one negative (at least for men) emotion I have found creates an amazing response, but can only be used down the road deeper in the relationship. One on one humiliation - if you give her a little playful shit about the dinner not being right - or about her not understanding computers - or about any of her less sensitive inadequacies that come up. Also don't show too much interest - and never be afraid to approach any girl, even if she's outside your league. The worst thing is that they say No, however you MAKE them say No if you never approach them.

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