1) Ignore the stupid, negative trolls.
2) Look how many people care enough to come tell you how attractive they think you are and ask you to keep sharing.
3) As a couple of people have pointed out, confidence is sexy.
4) As lurker said, you have to feel good about yourself or this site will never be able to give you enough.
5) Take the time to see what you have to offer to a man.
6) Screw worrying about what to do with your account. Delete it, keep it, ignore it. It's your choice and you don't have to decide today.
7) Decide for yourself what makes you happy. None of us are you, and so none of us can know what's right for you as well as you can. The other thing can and will sort out from there. Just don't lose heart or let depression win.
That's all I have to say here. Feel free to PM me any time for whatever reason. I hope some of us have helped.