::sigh::
Dude, how can you be interesting to others if you aren't interesting to yourself? Your measure of your self worth seems to be "body type & cock length"...
Step 1 : Decide to stop being the shy/loser type who lives in a virtual fantasy world.
Step 2 : Stop feeling starved for attention. Most people can subconsciously sense it and it's a turn off.
Step 3 : Get off the internet and go somewhere where there are people, like a mall, park, library - whatever. Pick 10 strangers and talk to them.
Women might be able to get by on "physical attributes" alone, but men don't. You need to develop your mind and become a better man.