I confess I wish my fucking in-laws would die already. They are the most selfish fuckers I have ever known. They are slum lords who inherited everything. They never worked a day in their lives. They hold on to my wife and won't let het go. My wife and I wanted to leave NY for the chance of buying a home. Homes and taxes are really high here. They are both 82 and in bad health. The cheap bastards wont sell their vast property and live in a home. They keep my wife close to everything because they don't want to hire a nurse. God hear my prayors and set us free.
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Dont worry mate, at that age they aint got long, a few years n u'll be able to sell all that shit and move away. good luck1

Sounds like you're the most selfish fucker *they've* ever known. Stop dreaming of inheriting their stuff and go make a god-damned life for yourself. Be someone your wife's willing to leave her parents for, or leave her behind. You want to be free? Be free. Her parents aren't holding you down - your own greed and lack of ambition keeps you there. Man up, fool.

I don't see anything in the OP's post about wanting or dreaming about inheriting his in-laws property and wealth. He's saying they're cheap because they won't sell their property to live in a nursing home or assisted living home, and/or won't pay for the nurse or in-home care they need. Perhaps, you've read too much into what was written, or you're projecting you're feelings about some other situation onto the poster.

I know where you're coming from. My in-laws have been like this for about 5 years, and have decent lake front property. They wouldn't sell it to move into a place that would provide the assisted living care they need. We have to stay within an 8 hour drivable range, in-case we're needed to make decisions for them. My father-in-law just passed away at the age of 77, after 3 years of a drawn out illness. Now, my mother-in-law still refuses to sell the property, she's about to have her driver's license taken away, and even with hearing aids she only has about 20% of her hearing. She's 79. She's told us she doesn't want us around, doesn't want us to visit, etc. When my wife had a chance to take a job in Austin, my mother-in-law pitched a fit because we wouldn't be within 8 hours travel time, even by air, to get to her. My wife ended up passing on the job, one that could have really furthered her career. I don't want my mother-in-law's property, I just want her grip on my wife to be gone, and that won't be until she passes away.