I've always known what I was into. Sex is fun. Foreplay is fun. But what I truly love is the power dynamic. I love teasing a woman until she loses control. I love see that gleam in her eyes right before all is lost. I love making her body shake, her legs tremble. I love to just let it build and tease her until she's going over and over. Fingers, toys, kissing, whole 9 yards. I love the thought of her completely soaked before I even start to fuck her. My goal is at least 2 orgasms before I'll fuck. Inevitably I get her to do something she said she wouldn't do. Maybe it's blowing me, or cumming in her mouth, or a facial. Maybe it's a toy in her ass, or fucking her ass, or cumming deep in her ass. Maybe it's not pulling out, filling her with my seed. But I always get off knowing I got her off at least 3 times and she pushed a boundary. I enjoy sex. I enjoy getting blown. But more then anything else I love knowing that I have the ability to really get a woman off.
There's nothing like the power trip of gently holding a woman's head as she swallows your load, knowing that an hour ago she was very clear that she's not into blowjobs.
