ok so i need a little help here. i'm a single father i have a teenage daughter she has been living with me for about 4 months now. shes a some what normal girl but last weekend i had 2 work late so i told her i would be home aroud 11pm or so. i arrive home shes asleep on the couch with her laptop on the table. i turn off the computer and go to cuvver her up with a blanket. i notice the tip of a screwdriver under her legs so i grab it couse i did'ent want it to stab hr as she slept. and to my shock there was a condom on the handle of it. so i took my screwdrver put it on the table net to her laptop and went to bed. the next morning i get up to cook some food shes still asleep but the screwdriver was gone back in the toolbox where it belongs. she has'ent said anything about it should i leave it alone or talk to her about it. is it weird to buy her a sex toy couse i don't want her to get hurt using a old rusty tools to masturbate.
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Buy her a toy please it will be safer. She will be embarrassed but talk to her.
Go on and buy her a vibrator, then just leave it under her pillow with a little bow wrapped around it. She'll most likely be to embarrassed to say anything about it you'll both end up pretending it didn't happen and carry on as normal. With the exception that she has a bit more fun and your tools go back to having a more mundane existence. hmmm... might be worth leaving a quick not under her pillow with the vibrator. Something along the lines of "you'll find this is so much more fun that a screwdriver!" or something like that. It might make her squirm a bit in embarrassment. But without a note it might look like you've just randomly left her a sex toy, which could lead to all manner of misunderstandings. And if you are feeling really mean, you can always wait a few weeks and then one dinner time nonchalantly ask how she getting on with the vibrator. and then piss yourself laughing as her dinner comes out of her nose.
It appears that she is primed and ready for the ways of cock. You ought to introduce yours to her. You can't have us all believe that when you found the screwdriver and condom that you didn't get hard and probably rub one out in the bathroom.
get her a realistic dildo since it seems she likes to be vaginally stimulated. Just leave it in her room. im sure she wont say anything at all and really appreciate it. its hard to get your hands on something like that. let us know what happens
Maybe she is just a lil freak and likes to be stimulated by off the wall objects! Get her an assortment of Condoms in different sizes, this way she is ready for the Broom handle thru to the Shampoo bottle and who knows what else!
Get the girl a few so that she can experiment and find what she likes.
Why would you buy your daughter a toy when she has a father?
PLEASE don't talk to her about it! Words will fail miserably at any attempt to bridge the parent - teenager gap.
ACTIONS are what God judges, not words. Action is what is required to help her. And get real and buy her a realistic looking dildo with a good vibrator in it and a suction cup base!
If you don't want her to wind up a lesbian, you better make sure she knows that Man is created in God's image, not some fake looking submarine sex toy that looks has no resemblance to a human cock.
When a buddy found a couple of his rubber handled tools under his daughters bed he put them back and bought her a nice hair brush set with similar handles. You and she know what he will use them for, but these she can at least use and clean herself.
can we see a picture of her please and the screwdriver :)
If you really want to do the right thing for your daughter why are you asking for advice on a porn site?
ok so i brought up the screwdriver today on the drive to school i think she want to kill her self. couse she wasent asleep when i grabed the screwdriver she said when i walked in she did'nt know what to do so she hide the screwdriver under her and closed her eyes. pretended to be sleeping. sowe had our talk i said i dont want you using tools to do that and gave her a credit card to buy some thing a litter safer.
I think you should talk to her about it. tell her you don't want her to get hurt. and offer to buy her a vibrator or something. because if she does hurt herself with one of your tools, your gona blame yourself for not doing anything sooner
let her be. It's her business. Sometimes girls masturbate when they are in a new environment or stressed.
step 1- don't get your parenting advice from motherless.com it is not a single-father help page. i see how you might've been confused
