I did the same thing back in the ICQ days to my wife.
Turns out she was fucking her son, picking up 13-16 year old girls and finger banging them at the lake and her oldest son was conceived by her older brother.
She did not say a lot of bad things about me, but did reveal classified information that I had mistakenly told her.
I managed to get a time that she would be banging her kid and "caught" them by taking the day off. What I SHOULD have done was turn her in, but what I did do was blackmail them to let me join in.
He in turn much later, ratted us both out and while we were in jail he cleaned out our house, killed our dog and ruined one of our cars.
He will not die of old age.
We had photos, but they were seized as evidence. Trust me, uploading images of that ugly cow would NOT be a positive thing for this site in any way.