poster of the girl with the brush here: I find it doesnt really matter how you handle them. The ones who do it are just wanting to do it. They do like it when your very appreciative though. OP is right about being too aggressive. If you push too hard they leave, even if they are right in the middle of it.
No tape by the way. Sorry. I feel like if they want to do it for me, great, but dont want to take too much advantage. I know, Im a moralfag.

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07 Aug 2011 9:17PM