unfortunately there are a lot of skeptical people on motherless because they are afraid that if they aren't really communicating with a young lady they might be gay.
so the first thing you'll need to do is offer up some kind of proof you are who you say you are. until you do that you will get a lot of juvenile, pointless replies to your thread.
there aren't many ways of proving that you are who you say you are. i suggest maybe writing the date and time on yourself somewhere ( harder to photoshop than writing it on a sign) and taking a picture of it and posting it right away.
