Ha ha lolling at the psychobabble from TSI, sorry I know you are only trying to help and there is a bit of truth in there, the biological drive to reproduce is very strong at your age and that is one large factor that causes sexual arousal, which is also amplified by social factors such as peer pressure and emotional feeling, etc etc blah blah, I'm not a qualified person to describe all the different forces at work that create your sexuality, but from experience it would seem from what you have said that you certainly aren't some sort of freak or pervert as you seem to be worrying about. It just seems that you have a naturally high sex drive as a lot of people do, and as long as you take reasonable precautions, such as always using contraception, condoms, etc, and taking care not to put yourself very risky situations where you could be vulnerable to predatory men who might harm you, then I wouldn't think you have anything to worry about.
As for your parents finding out and cutting off your inheritance, well that's another matter and without knowing your parents or what kind of people they are, it's hard to judge what they would do if they knew what you got up to. Maybe they wouldn't be as shocked as you might imagine, but anyway if you are 19 it is your business what you do with your body and who you have sex with, and if they would want to control your behaviour by threatening to disinherit you, then maybe you should just accept that you will have to fend for yourself in the long run, at least that way you can be true to yourself and not have to pretend to be frigid just to get some money some time in the future. There are much more important things in life than money and being comfortable with your own sexuality is one of them.
hope that helps a little.
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16 May 2011 3:18PM
