I have tried that and she says she wont, She is local and too worried about anyone she works with finding out - thats why im worried
But she has said she will meet me in a public area,Then walk into some wodds for a fuck, If i go and she does not turn up, or a bloke arrives, I can just leave.
I know what car she will be driving and what she will be wearing, But I have not told her anything about me, so she will not know who I am until I approach her.