ok guys, help me out here. my fiance is no longer talking to her best friend, they're done. i love my girl but lately her ex friend has been emailing me and trying to move in on me.
the problem is that im a man of extreme tastes (motherless duh) which my girlfriend accepts, but can't or won't satisfy. i understand, my tastes run from the pedo variety, all the way to the homicidal and immoral. the friend jill, knew a bit of it but as we been chatting (me and her got close over the years) i've learned that jill is very willing and even eager to join me in these immoral or frowned upon acts.
i've been nothing but an emotionless sociopath until i met my woman, but now this one has me thinking also...
what should i do? i would love to have a woman who i can be myself and share myself with, even in the extreme situations. but i love my girl,(we plan on marrying) eventhough i've never loved anyone before.
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This is a real toughy.
Frankly, what if that girl isn't at all like what you thought?
Then you're screwed.
I'd just stick with the one, because.. Any pussy is better than none.
Go for the Chick that WANTs to do Nasty things with you . IF not you will always wonder how it would have been . Your Fiance sounds like she " Lets you " enjoy the Extreme stuff . Soon after you say I DO , she will decide you NEED to stop thinking along those lines ... OR ELSE ! Don't restrict your self to a life of Hiding your REAL desires and obsessions . It will only make things worse for you both . I can say BTDT !
Yeah^ I would have to agree. If you CAN; hide it from your current woman. That's what makes it exciting.
I know exactly how you feel, but from an outsider here it sounds as if your fiances ex friend is trying to lure you in with your weak spots to get at your fiance. this may not be the case but very often is. even if so it isn't stick with your fiance, she's the one who loves you. ok she wont satisfy your needs but there has to be compromise, you know yourself these are extreme needs and it cant suit everyones willingness. i say thats what motherless is for to help you with that. look im engaged also and i have these needs but i know for a fact my fiance wont go near them, come on she wont even do anal! but yet im sticking with her because i know she will stick by me through and through and i aint risking anything to lose her.
op here, good answers guys, specially this last poster. i do love my fiance, but i suppose in a way i love the other girl also. but not in that way maybe... i've never been good with emotions and feelings. but i'm so intrigued by the other woman and the things she can help me accomplish... theres things i cant even bring myself to tell my fiance out of fear of scaring her off (eventho every sick thing i've told her she's listened and still stays)
but this other girl not only feels this way, but is eager to share it with me. she's the one who brought up a subject that not even my girl knows about, and i had to tell her i felt the exact same and thats how the ball got rolling... another problem being that i dont trust this girl. not a whole lot anyway. she may be a tad unstable where as i've learned to live with and hide my psychotic and disturbing qualities.
i think i'm gonna stick with my girl, but damn... i want to have em both. why can't i be a polygamist damn it...
Dude... Porn doesn't script itself. We have to make it happen. If you don't try to get these girls to reconcile... ON YOUR COCK!... then it doesn't matter what you do anyway because you aren't even playing the game anymore...
as much as i would love a threesome with these two, i know its not a possibility in their current state. but also, come on. they were friends since as long as i've known. dont you think i tried that already??
my interest with the second girl is mostly non sexual. i say mostly, cause yeah i'd fuck her, she's sexy. but she has mind as fucked and as demented as mine, we both fantasise of murder and torture and the total control that comes with it. we're both in a very dark place mentally and seem to get along in that respect
lol dude, I am in the exact same situation (minus the pedo and fiancée part) I am probably going to side with my gf's friend. idk bout you but I personally am not ready to settle down, and its a rare event to find a girl that has the same kinks as you do. I am just looking forward to fucking a girl that I don't have to constantly keep my sexual aggression in cheque
to be honest guys, this girl even told me once she would let me do her. and i dont mean sex, i mean *runs thumb over throat*
its tempting but i do love her in a way n dont believe she is deserving of that. but she seemed to be wanting me to end her. too risky, i got lots to lose. but if i could keep her, and have her to fullfill certain fantasies with. that would be the life. but im too in love with my fiance. i cant hurt her that way
The friend is playing you to get back at ur gf..chicks have no fucking scruples or mercy..she will make sure you gf finds out she worked your cock then drop you..wise up dude...
you dont know everything. i can't give you guys the full detailed story. but, if theres one thing i can tell is a good liar, even a woman. and i know where her mind stands, i have been mentally manipulating her long before her and my girl split. i know the situation, im 100% sure of that, knowing everything i know about it, really my choice is to have an affair, not even sexual. but one where me and the other girl can reach some sort of agreement or help each other in certain ways. or totally forget about this girl and let my needs go unfullfilled.
i guess if i had to chose this second, id go for my girl. i can't hurt her. i guess putting your wife before yourself is what its all about....
Your pussy wiped by your fiance and your too scared to do the shit in your head, even though you have someone willing to help you do them. Your a loser, a cowered and a no one here should give you the time of day. Grow a pair and man up. If you want to keep the women who gives you some kind of emotional link (why when she will turn you in to the cops in the end, is beyond reason) go ahead and marry the stupid bitch. But if you had a pair you would seal the deal with the other bitch and do it in a fashion she would be a full partner in, according to the law, and so could not rat you out. Then you would have a true partner as well. But, you don't have real stones to do shit! You sit on your thumbs and whine.
having an affair is not the right answer dude, search deeper.... We crave the taboo side of motherless b/c plain sex is no longer satisfying. it is a dangerous dangerous slope my friend... If you try abstaining from the taboo for a while and focus on ur fiance, you will find she is the one for you. Love will always win over lust. Her friend is just a temporary high. It wont last forever. Do yourself a favor and dont loose the one you fell in love with. Watch "rumor has it," it will maybe open your eyes. The fun with the gf will leave you wanting more and more, slippery slippery slope my friend. She is using your taboo desires to get to you. Way to close for comfort as she was a friend of your fiance. PLus the more you indulge yourself in the taboo, you run the risk of getting caught and the guilt will take over your life, you fiance will notice something different, you wont be able to get hard for her anymore and then she will start looking elsewhere for someone who is attracted to her. In the end it will not satisfy... I'm just saying.. Good Luck to you in your decision my friend.
You're being set up, dude. Your girl's "friend" is trying to get you sprung simply to piss your girl off.
stay with your fiance man. that other girl is trying to lure you in with some kind of weird sex dance. it's happened to me once, and I didn't like the outcome. stay with the one who loves you.
Yeah, dude.... don't fuck the friend. The cake is a lie.
op here. i decided to no longer speak to my woman's ex friend. its not worth losing this girl over. i know i have my issues, and they're not sexual. more homicidal and sadistic in nature. however, she understands that and loves me anyway. and i think she wants me to love. and doesnt wanna have to love me behind bars, so like i said. gotta put your wife before yourself. i'll have to find other outlets for my issues
stick with the woman you love, good idea. you get too sadistic you might end up in prison with someone being sadistic on you.
