Thanks for all the tips. I believe you that I'm going to be hooked, the first time I had a man push his finger in me there while also fingering and licking my pussy I think I saw stars :) It's that wonderfully amazing feeling of being filled up that is hard to put into words.
I think I'm going to just go real slow. Even if I cant take the toy in my pussy while I have the other in my ass I at least want to get an idea of what being fucked in the ass feels like. Though I'm sure a real life cock feels much better.