I am one of these seriously overweight people you dislike for no reason. I am 31 and I weigh 247 kilograms.
I have a secure job. I get up everyday and go to work. I like all the wrong foods, although lately I have cut down A LOT. I don't have a woman. But there are women out there who like big men.
I don't ask anything special from society. I live my life as best I can without trying to inconvenience others. I pay extra for decent, well fitting clothing and I shower every day.
I bowl two nights a week so that keeps me semi active.
Once people befriend me they don't see this huge guy, they just see me. I used to ride a push bike everywhere and excercise regularly but could not lose weight. I found out recently that I can't process carbohydrate, I am glucose intolerant. So all of my hard work over the years really did nothing. I was unknowingly stowing away bread, rice, pasta...most of the things I love, and getting no where.
One night, while I was slogging it up a steep hill on my mountain bike, some assholes drove by in a car, threw a beer bottle at me and screamed "LOSE SOME WEIGHT YOU FAT CUNT". (What did they think I was doing?). The glass shattered everywhere and punctured one of my tyres. On another occasion, while partaking in a nightly 5 kilometer walk, (while I was unemployed I took this up), another carload of people came past screaming obscenities and they even went round the block to do it again. I have been followed round the supermarket by giggling girls and crushed by innocent children. "Daddy, there's a big fat man!" and "Why are you so big and fat?" from two kids of about 5 or 6.
I don't blame anyone but myself for where I am or what I have become. And I don't expect any pity. Now, I spend my days doing what I can, making sure I keep going to work and keep bowling. I'm working on cutting down my junk foods (which is basically anything given my glucose intolerance) but it is not easy at all. Unless you have been there you have no idea. But I will slowly keep working at it. Changing my diet is proving to be the hardest part.
And because of ignorant, selfish cunts like you, most of us have to do it alone.