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12 Dec 2016 4:34AM
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I confess that I really, really want to ask one of my best friends out, but I keep avoiding asking her out because I'm terrified of her rejecting me and it damaging our friendship.

Full disclosure: we'd been fuckbuddies earlier this year, but then, for unclear reasons, she put an end to it. And that's part of why I've had really cold feet about just asking her out.

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12 Dec 2016 8:44AM

Quit being such a pussy. Grow a set and tell her what you want. If she would end your friendship over it then she isn't that good of a friend to begin with.

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12 Dec 2016 8:49AM

Dude, if you've already been in that pussy wtf do you have cold feet about. lol. I mean seriously? I'm married (open marriage) and I've hooked up with ex-girlfriends before because once you've had a pussy, that pussy can usually always be used (unless you burned a bridge). Sounds like you burned a bride to me which is why you're scared of talking to her about it.

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12 Dec 2016 4:30PM

Being real a minute though, it's not uncommon for girls to back out of FWB situations because they're getting too attached and don't want to be clingy and ruin a good thing. She may have the same issues you do for the same reasons: fear of rejection and ruining your friendship.

Us guys are plenty fucked up in the head but there's nothing saying we have the market cornered on insecurities and fear of rejection. Play it cool, be relaxed, let her know you don't wanna mess up the friendship but you just wanted to run something by her. Tell her in a relaxed but honest way, and most girls won't wig out, and are actually pretty understanding.

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12 Dec 2016 4:41PM

I agree with you... from the limited info it's seems she may have some feelings... best to try and talk about it... if she's a real friend an honest discussion and clearing the air should be fine whithout risking the existing friendship

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13 Dec 2016 5:42AM

Fair enough. I see next her on Friday... here goes nothing!!

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13 Dec 2016 9:00PM

Good luck

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13 Dec 2016 5:41AM

Sounds like some decent enough advice. I think I'll give it a try next time I see her. Thanks :-)

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