A few years back I had an internet friend that I cared for. We chatted and flirted a lot. As things heated up I started to get clingy. It made her uncomfortable that I felt more strongly for her than she did for me. So one day she just stopped talking to me. Kind of a bitchy thing to do, but it happens. Come to think of it, she stopped talking to me on my birthday. But looking back on it we really didn't have much in common. I was using her as a crutch because I was such an introvert I couldn't get out and meet people. Since then I've decided to be more outgoing. It's not easy, but I've managed to make new friends and have a more fulfilling social life. Still working on a more fulfilling love life. Just know that with concerted effort it is possible to break out of your shell.
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See I was kind of the reverse of this, She was the one who wanted to spend time with me. I was at a point in myself where I was becoming more outgoing, I was losing weight going back to school ( I had dropped out in my last year of highschool so I went into an upgrading course to get my GED so I could go to University ).
we had lots in common too, like our love of the same type of games and books.
That's why I really don't understand, we were happy. We talked about everything and spent a lot of time together, but most of it was at her behest.
All the more puzzling. Well, some things you just can't make sense of. Sounds like you've already analyzed all the data you have and still come up confused. Unless she rings you up and tells you why, there's no use in going over and over it in your head. Best, I think, to just accept it as a tragic mystery and move on. Maybe one day new information will come along and you'll be able to figure it out. But for now just set it aside.
I have really, This post is kind of a combination of my finally letting it go and my hope that someone might be able to give me a better resolution than what I have already. Maybe tell me why someone would do something like this or something, just so that I could put it to bed fully.
