I confess that I can't get my girlfriend to let me play with her ass hole. We've been dating almost two years. I want to eat her ass and finger it. I feel like it would make her orgasms more powerful, and I think she'd love the way it feels. The only problem is that she thinks its creepy cause its her butt or whatever. What can I do to convince her?
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17 Feb 2013 7:11PM
My gf was the same way too but she got over it. I got her a wand massager and had her masturbate for a long time alone. Then when I joined her she was so wet that she wanted my dick. I fucked her pussy for awhile and then I lubed her ass up while the massager was on her clit and went REALLY slow. The key for them is communication, if she says slow, go slow. Make it as pleasurable for her as possible so she'll continue to do it. The thing that got me in continuously is that her orgasm ability is 100% tied to anal. She now craves my cock in her ass. Not saying this will work for you, but what I'd say is do something romantic and special for her and hopefully she'll do the same for you. Make her comfortable and listen to her. Good luck!!
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17 Feb 2013 11:14PM
My lady was the same way 7 years ago. She felt that her asshole wasn't a sexy part of her body. I just kept telling her that her ass was sexy. She did try anal 7 years ago but it hurt to much. So I let it drop for a few years, then I started just rubbing her little hole while fucking her pussy. I encouraged her to play with her own ass as much as she could.
My advice is:
1 be patient
2 do anything and everything to boost her self-esteem
3 find a way to link anal to something she finds pleasurable
4 be patient
5 like buffalo28 said if she says slow, go slow
Good Luck and Happy Humping
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18 Feb 2013 8:39AM
She says no for a reason! It fucking hurts. People are different, some have a big anus and rectum that will accomodate it.
I know a woman who loves it. In fact the only way she can climax is with anal sex.
Many women should never do it. A woman who is constructed small in the asshole will be damaged by it. Do you want to damage her?
This can be the result: -
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18 Feb 2013 7:31PM
Thanks a lot guys! Picture wasn't necessary (just gross), I'm not hurting her nor am I going to force things to go quicker than they should. She does a ton of stuff for me thats extra and amazing, and I'm fine and happy with the way things are. But good advice nonetheless. Patience and super compliments.
