I need advice. my girlfriend and I were at a party last night. I was pretty wasted. there was an older man hitting on her and I'm pretty sure feeling her up. She was coming on to him as well. I got pissed and walked out she followed me and we left. today she said she doesn't wanna talk about it. what should I do?
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06 Oct 2013 6:31PM
Slap the fuckin whore and make sure she knows her place!
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06 Oct 2013 10:31PM
leave it be for another time man. she might not be comfortable with what happened that night.
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06 Oct 2013 11:17PM
Introduce her to the curb where the rest of the garbage goes.
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07 Oct 2013 12:27AM
How sure are you about what you think you might have seen. If you were really wasted, maybe the facts were a bit different.
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07 Oct 2013 1:23PM
For some reason everyone's down voting the most sensible thing.
Which would be to dump her. I mean sure you can confront her about it first, but all you're going to hear is "It meant nothing." Which sure is odd, because if it meant nothing it never would've happened. So then you'll press her for details and she'll admit she was attracted to him or that she's feeling less attracted to you or some other run of the mill bullcrap a girl will feed you, but the fact of the matter is she was getting hit on, possibly felt up, and didn't reject the dude outright despite having a boyfriend. If his attentions had been unwanted she would've told him she had a boyfriend, and if he'd been forcing his attentions on her, she would've sought you out so that you could protect her.
So yeah, go ahead, have the conversation proper, and then when you feel the piercing knife of betrayal in your back, dump the bitch.
Or you can save yourself the pain, call her out on it and dump her without forcing the conversation and walk off in vindication knowing you were right to leave her ass. I've done both of these, and I can say the second one feels a lot better, even if there is the small chance it did mean nothing. If there's one thing you shouldn't tolerate, it's unfaithfulness.
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07 Oct 2013 4:03PM
This may be crazy, because you're angry about it, but what about talking to her and see if she wants to invite him over so you and him can both have your way with her? I only mention it because it's something I'd like... *blush*
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08 Oct 2013 6:07AM
Save yourself the heartache later down the road and dump her now, what happens when you're not there and she lets it go further and doesn't want to talk about it then? Welcome to getting cheated on and her going on with her life like nothing happened.
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11 Oct 2013 6:59PM
Woman like to get hit on. Remember that. She didn't touch him or kiss him and went home with you. At some point in your life you will grab a woman's ass in a bar when your in a relationship. Does this mean the woman should dump your ass for being drunk and appreciating nature? So before you throw her to the curb think about the things you have done in front of her that she has turned a blind eye to.
On a side note maybe shes a cuckold and wanted to see if you were into it.
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15 Oct 2013 3:59PM
So while me and my girlfriend were having sex she admitted she would have sex with another man. Idk but for some reason I'm starting to find this hot. Ugh. What to do..
