The power of working with men or mature women therapists is that they can make a space for you to rage and howl through the upper levels of anger and pain until you are exhausted enough, or feel seen enough to descend into the sadness and pain.
Most office complexes cannot have people yelling and screaming...you need isolation or thick walls for that...and a therapist who wont run away (physically or emotionally). If a therapist is ready to let you rage all you need to (promising never to harm her or yourself) then they are in the class of practitioner that can help you.
