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24 Feb 2017 11:44AM

Ok, first off – me: married 17 years, 45 years old. First, why did you go through a rocky patch in your marriage? Did she cheat? What was the main concern of why you both almost got divorced? Second, you’re both bored. It’s that 7 year itch (usually hits at the 5 year mark). Your brain (and hers) is literally programmed to get bored of your partner, pheromones wear off, chemicals in the brain change over time – it’s a normal thing. If your wife isn’t going to ‘spice things up’ unfortunately you’ll go elsewhere to do it. I say unfortunately because usually guys won’t think to get permission from their partners. You’re still friends with her, she’s supposed to be your best friend – you’re supposed to be able to talk to her about ANYTHING right? So, bring this up. Ask her if she is bored, ask her if she wants to experiment with an open relationship to spice things up. Most women are bisexual by nature. Maybe she wants some soft lips sucking on her? This all being said, I have an open marriage because I talked to my wife about it. She lets me fuck one woman, and I let her have fun with her girlfriend too. It’s changed my marriage for the better. Jealousy could be an issue: yet – you should be able to talk to your BEST FRIEND about ANYTHING. Scientifically our species is not wired to be monogamous. Have a heart to heart with your wife, and don’t disappoint the two children who depend on you for being their father.

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