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cynthiajoy

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11 Oct 2017 10:52AM

You're welcome, we are all in this life together and i think we are all learning every day. i have never been "normal" and i am comfortable with that now in my life. If you have a desire to submit to another male go for it. Even if you only do it once you will have learned something about yourself. Or maybe you will find out you are a switch. Neither way is wrong.

i can't speak for anyone else about humiliation, but submitting to someone always is to me. Maybe because in the other part of my life i am so strong and independent. i don't have the answer; i just know it is there and i enjoy it.

Good luck in your journey.

Further research is needed

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ADK

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11 Oct 2017 10:59AM

The desire isn't that strong I've felt the need to seek it out - yet, at least. If the right opportunity presents itself, I'll probably take it, but if it doesn't, I don't mind keeping it as a fantasy. It'd be fun to try, sure, but so would visiting china, or jumping in parachute, or scuba diving at the great barrier reef. All things I'm sure I'd enjoy at least trying out if the opportunity comes along... But not something I feel so strongly about that I have any indication to go seek it out. There are other things I'd rather spend my energy on.

Still, it's not like I'll rule out trying it :)

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cynthiajoy

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11 Oct 2017 11:03AM

Grin, the seed of wondering is already planted in your brain.

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11 Oct 2017 11:08AM

Hahaha, oh, it's been growing there for a long, looong time :P
Gender is a performance after all, and I enjoy playing the painfully obvious part of strong, dominant manly man, fucking eager sluts hard and giving them the humiliation they crave. But it is a role. It's not the entirety of who and what I am. Sometimes I play different, gentler roles. Don't talk much about those around these parts, not that kind of places. And sometimes I wonder if I should expand my repertoire, in terms of what roles I play. Variety is the spice of life after all ;)

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11 Oct 2017 11:17AM

The seed is your thought. It might not grow. That was all i was saying.

Most of us do other activities besides sex and bdsm. Enjoy going to a movie, bowling, going shopping with friends, or staying home cooking a good meal.

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11 Oct 2017 11:21AM

Very true. Around this place, people often act as if we are defined by what we do sexually, while for most people, it's only a part of us, sometimes even a fairly small one.

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11 Oct 2017 6:44PM

Agreed, i do many things in life besides those two things. Might add that i enjoy them too.

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