I want some advice on how to go from giving a mostly naked woman a massage in my bed into sex with out drugs (other than alcohol) or force.
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Thanks. this is the most detailed advice any one has given me yet.

dude, if you have a 'mostly naked' woman in YOUR bed, she isn't really there for a massage.

Put your dick in her - that usually does the trick.

I think OP has a high class problem.
One subtle approach right off the top ma head is thus: ask her to return the favor and tell her she can start here (as u point to yer throbbing member). Remember, subtlety is key here..

She and I had a sexual conversation today. We talked a lot about her biggest turn ons, and she really likes sneaky acts, suck as slipping a cock in when she leases expects it. So I bet slipping off those panties at the right moment will be no problem if I am sneaky.