Look, we all turn to porn for one reason or another. Perhaps it's because we've unfulfilled fantasies, maybe our current lover is inadequate, or maybe it's just because you need a sexual 'pick me up'. But I, for one, am just getting tired of it all...I desperately want to find a woman who is 100% completely open minded, sexually. I want to find someone who wants to travel with me, who wants to share life with me, and wants to fuck as much as possible with me, as well as others. But it seems that each time I find someone who declares themselves just so, i'm met with utter disappointment. Dating sites are bullshit, and i'm tired of living with false women. I turned to porn because I wanted to see the face of a woman who I could see myself with, a face I could see myself rolling over in bed to greet every morning. I'm not a pervert, i'm just mind numbingly lonely. So tell me, brothers and sisters....am I alone?
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OP, this is what I have learned in my many many years of dating and marriage;
Even when it’s good it’s bad. If you somehow get passed all the self-centered users and whores and find some woman with some self-respect and intelligence, you will still loose. Maybe Ms. Right will have some quality about them that totally turns you off; a nasty habit, or a domineering attitude (self-assured women have them you know). The bottom line is no one is perfect and going to fit in your self-made mold of your perfect find. Either live with that fact, or retain your peace of mind being on your own. I have seen women know how to do this better than men Maybe because they think with only one head? LOL. It’s better to be on your own, doing what you want without any hassles from another and keep your relationships at a safe distance, trust me.
wow I agree with you.. that would be perfect..best of luck finding her/
The emptiness doesn't come from a lack of a woman. There is a false logic in treating a significant other as the apex of passion and completeness. You've created a self-fulfilling prophecy of suffering and despondency by linking your emotional turmoil to your relationship status. Relationships are a subset of life and the human condition; they don't epitomize them. Take action to shift your perspective, instead of attempting to fulfill a deluded notion of happiness (because it's currently impossible). The emptiness you feel is bigger than a person, it's a psychological framework. Small steps include reading books and conversing with people that communicate ideologies and life-philosophies different than your own, especially those that emphasize things other than romantic love.
