Well it finally happened, I came home and found the apartment cleaned out of her things. She left me a 5 page note about the whole situation and how she found someone else about a year ago. She said she took her things and moved into his place. She doesn't want a messy divorce, she just wants to go and be with him. She said that whatever is in the apartment is mine to do whatever with and I should be seeing the paperwork for divorce soon.
Overjoyed doesn't begin to describe how I'm feeling. Now I just need to find a new position so I'm not gone two weeks out of the month lol.