Confession/advice request. I am a guy, 40...decent looking, married (again) and sex life is great but never had a BJ! This sucks, any (straight) advice?
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17 Oct 2012 12:27AM
I'm not sure how anyone could say their sex life is great if it doesn't include oral sex. Take a shower together, go down on her first, and don't force her head with your hands. Repeat until she gets comfortable with it and you can do more.
Or, hire an escort. Seriously.
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17 Oct 2012 12:36AM
OP here. Good point about the "great" sex life. I have tried every thing I can think of. I go down often but seem to just find the wrong women. I may get 30-60 sec of oral playing, but not long enough to really get into it. Sucks to think I may die an oral virgin.
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17 Oct 2012 12:46AM
Here is an idea, talk to her. Tell her how great things are between you two but this is something you really want to experience. You do not want to pressure her I would guess but you might point out times you have done things to make her happy if she seems reluctant.
Or you could put it on your xmas wish list
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17 Oct 2012 3:16AM
What i did is, dont show u want sex from her at all, turn her down afew time (b carefully they(myn) does get upset), then she is supa keen n will try anthing to get u in the mood, n when she works out that works, done deal ull get woken up in the morning with one ;)
