Oh, my GOD... are you serious?
You come on to a website like THIS, and do NOT want advice like mine? Holy HELL, dude...
WHY DON'T YOU GO ASK DR. PHIL, OR JERRY SPRINGER FOR ADVICE... maybe one of THEM will be sympathetic to your trying to "avoid" a problem that MOST GUYS WISH THEY HAD...
I believe I'm quoting myself when I say, "Don't be such a pussy..."