Uninhibited, I absolutely believe women deserve to be treated like human beings :) They should be respected and loved, and shown affection in bed. I recently lost my virginity to a much older lesbian. I care about her very much; I've known her online for a couple years, but that was only our second meeting in real life. I treated her the way I think women should always be treated...I embraced her, and hugged her closely, and penetrated gently at first. It was an amazing experience. That is how it is when you care about the person you're having sex with. I hope all of my future sexual experiences are like that. Of course she is not my girlfriend, as she is gay, but she invited me to return again, as I gave her three orgasms that night. She said my personality made her feel safe to try that with me.
I always have trouble relating to my fellow straight men, as I am more of like Luke Skywalker than Han Solo. I'm not aggressive and I take a contemplative approach to life, and seek collaboration rather than competition. Men like some of those who have replied on this thread often think I am not a real man because I don't try to force my will on others. :( It is unfortunate that so many alpha males want to act like animals. They should try to grow and evolve and come into the light! :)
