Well, let me first congratulate you for finding the perfect girl for you. Okay, yes, she's your cousin, but you said, she's awesome. And your Motherless family would like to meet both you and your cousin.
Keep up the practice. It's quite a unique experience being able to look into your partner's eyes when you cum, and one that can solidify your relationship. I rarely do it myself with my partner, but it's wonderful when we do.