your welcome Sweetie, I am glad to see that everything has worked out for the best, I hope it will continue for you and him, don't pay any attention to the nay sayer's on here, I cannot for the life of me figure out why if they are so moral what in the hell they are doing on here. go figure, they next time you make love to one of your g/f's in front of your husband, drop me a line and let me know how it goes.
Kisses Mistress G.
1
30 Apr 2015 5:47PM
Replies 3
1
01 May 2015 1:36PM
thank you again Mistress G
We've been talking about this a lot and I think this has actually brought us closer together. We had sex very seldom before and now we've been doing it at least once a day. he sex has become more... "interesting" as well. He has opened up about fantasies and things that he wants to try that I had no idea of before.
There's a play party tomorrow night at a friends house, there are 24 couples and a few singles that have rsvp'd so far and most likely by tomorrow there will be more. My husband has told me he wants me to go. I've asked him to come too, but he thinks he's going to stay home. He wants me to go, have as much fun as I can manage, then come home and tell him everything. I would prefer he came with me, but I'm ok with this if thats what he wants. One of our rules now is I don't play without telling him first, and if he's not there, he gets a detailed account after.
I'll let you know what happens. My gf that he really connected with is going to be there as well so I'm hoping the two of us can coerce him into coming.
I try not to pay any attention to the dipshits that criticize and condemn without really knowing themselves. I think its more out of fear that they do that... fear that the same could happen to them, or maybe that they would do the same given the right circumstances. I don't know. But as you said Mistress G, this is a site that isn't necessarily for the high and mighty moral right. in my opinion, live and let others live. Who am I to judge?
thank you again to all those who supported me and offered help
xx
I'll keep you posted
-1
02 May 2015 1:24PM
You know where to find me, my site however as you may know is set to privet so you would have to join if you want to have very much contact or get me on messenger. I would enjoy following your journey and its obvious that that your hubby is not ready yet so don't push. Have you tried f/f sex at home with him in attendance? that might be a good place to start? Just have a female friend over and have a drink or two and innocently start playing around and well you know the rest? If he enjoys it then you can add to the mix over time until he is ready for for a full swing.
Kisses Mistress G
1
03 May 2015 10:31AM
I'm not suprised he's not want to go for a start. It's not easy for man, I assure you, going to the swinger party as the novice. Pressure to be "worthy" of the company is damn strong and the stress can be overwhelming. I experienced this in my old swing/open relationship days and I've seen it with others too. He can simply afraid that he couldn't make it. It's pretty normal – remember that in biology world there is no prizes for second place and it can be difficult feeling to fight with.
It can be good idea to start friendship (not necessarily with benefits) with some other couple. You may introduce him someone like that. After some while you can propose him small home party with wine, small talks, watching some classy pr0ns (without actors having cocks bigger than Catherina's Great favourite stallions ^_- but something funny and sexy) and then maybe swapping you for this other wife. Or may he even would make this first step? The most important thing for him is to understand, feel and accept, that he HASN'T to compare himself with other man or men (at least not in this devastating way - "I'm good for nothing useless prick, my wife deseves better and even now she get's better from this guy").
I'm sure that you'll cope with all of this. After all it was he who proven his high value during that night when he first fucked you and your two friends and later turned your pussy inside out in one night, isn't it? Admit it, you didn't expecting that from him, did you? ;)
