if I were you I would start asking him innocent questions about different kinds of sex and letting him know that you have an interest in different things, see where it goes, who knows in time you make be able to enjoy your needs together
kisses Mistress G
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24 Apr 2015 3:12PM
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24 Apr 2015 3:39PM
Hi Mistress G, thank you for your suggestion.
I have tried that, but he seems resistant to talk about it. I've told him I will do anything he wants... anything at all. I told him I would be happy to act out any fantasy he has, but he doesn't like to talk about sex. I've noticed that he has a lot of girl girl and FFM porn on his computer. I've talked to 2 of my very good girlfriends in the group I play with and they were very happy to surprise him with me. I just have to pick out a time
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24 Apr 2015 3:56PM
men are funny creatures, a lot of times they prefer to be voyeurs rather be involved because they are afraid they cannot preform or measure up, there for be humiliated. do you suck him off much.
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24 Apr 2015 4:10PM
I'll keep that in mind. It means a lot to me that this be something special for him so I want to make sure that it moves in a way that he feels comfortable.
Sucking cock has always been a big thing for me, and I really like sucking his. Maybe we could start with him in my mouth, while the girls play for him, or play with him... which ever he's more comfortable with.
I really appreciate your input with this
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24 Apr 2015 4:21PM
I am glad to help, you might also get one of your g/f to seduce him, help him build his confidence, just start out slow with him, you don't want him to get any idea of what your up to until you are sure he can handle it.
Mistress G
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24 Apr 2015 5:33PM
thats a very good idea. I think having another woman besides me interested in him would do wonders for his confidence. The two friends that agreed to help me are very much "his type" so I'm sure having someone he finds attractive that is interested in him (both think he's very handsome and sexy) come on to him will help smooth off the edges of all this. I don't plan on mentioning the rest of what I've been doing until much later... after in fact when we have more of the chance for a proper dialogue... for instance if he tells me he had a good time with my friends and is interested in doing it again, maybe I can suggest them including one of their husbands... and so on... baby steps
Any thoughts on that?
I really so appreciate your help Mistress G
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24 Apr 2015 6:26PM
I am working with one of my other girls on this same problem, first take your time and don't have your friend be to obvious at first, have her flash some skin, unbutton some buttons and wear a skimpy and no bra and top under a loose jacket so that when she moves and leans forward he he gets a good dose of tit, have her touch him when she talks to him and wear skirts often, she can let them ride up and show some leg, but here again don't over do it at first. Next how is your relationship with him in bed and how do you dress, look I want you to open an account on here and set it to privet, next I am on messenger so find me on there and we can talk, next to keep him on edge I want you to take all your bras and undies and put them in a box under your bed and go with out them for a while, we can discuss that later, tell me about your g/fs, I want to know how to use them to our advantage.
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24 Apr 2015 6:32PM
The trick is to make him want more without making it obvious what your doing to him, keep his interest peaked and his sensuality stimulated so that he want you and or your friend. Having a bit of a computer issue but I trust you will get this.
Mistress G
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24 Apr 2015 7:24PM
thank you Mistress G
thats something that I'm quite good at ;)
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24 Apr 2015 9:11PM
when your ready come to me, I will make good use of you and train you to serve your hubby well
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30 Apr 2015 9:26AM
so a lot has happened this weekend. I could write out pages about what happened but I'll try and keep it brief.
My gf's and I seduced my husband friday night. It was a wonderful night, I was quite taken aback (in a good way) how easily my husband took to playing with my friends, especially the one gf that I assumed he would connect with. the night was truly fun and exciting but what was most relevant was what happened after my friends left.
He and I fucked like crazy people, I mean he fucked me like he MEANT it! it was amazing. After, while we were laying together talking, I told him how much it turned me on seeing him fuck my friends. He got really quiet and then in a small voice said... "it turns me on when you fuck your friends too".
I thought he meant he liked seeing me with my girlfriends, and he said, yes, that turned him on, but what he was talking about was when I fuck my other friends.
I was shocked. I didn't know what to say.
He told me he's known about it for years (I can hear all the guys here that said he knew already saying "I told you so" lol) At first he said it bothered him, but he was hugely aroused by it all. He realized that I was still coming home to him and he knew I loved him.
We talked all night and into the morning. He told me he'd like to watch me sometime. Before we fell asleep we had sex again. He was so hard and so turned on, I loved this new change in him.
We had discussed and agree that I would invite my girlfriend and her husband over that night. The four of us had an amazing time and again we talked after.
This whole thing has brought us closer together than I had hoped.
We've agreed on rules and I'm sure those will change and morph as we go, but he wants me to go to a party this weekend coming up. He wants me to come home after and tell him everything I did
we'll see how it goes, but I'm very excited
Mistress G thank you so much for your help and support
and to the guys that supported me thank you as well
