Dude, why are you mad? She was in your bed. Yeah, ok, no sex. But think about it. She went to bed with you, and made you breakfast... Fuck, she said she feels safe with you. Thats a BIG DEAL for girls. She is now looking at you as husband material. She is teasting you, in her own way, to see if you really are the guy she thinks you are.
And you just saved her from being raped... so, I think its fair to say she mite not be quite ready to get back in to 'it' yet. Just be patient, and keep being you, and it should be all fine.