So how it is going? Did you do something about it?
"they add incest to rap-e" - but this story is not just about incest. It IS about rap-e.
You are good brother - you gave love and care to your sister, who needed them.
Tell her about your feelings
Siblings share 0-100% of their DNA (50% is average) - so looks are very different
It is so hearwarming to see such loving and supporting siblings.
"I was the only guy in her life that didn't treat her like shit" - you are a good brother.
If you two really in love with each other - i hope that you would be happy together.
Why don't you talk with her?
Oh, thank gods for such comment!
Why people don't just talk with each other. Even if she is not into it - i don't see how it could ruin anything (if they have good relationship)
And how is your relationship with dad? I mean is it just like "friends with benifits" (casual sex, having good time and etc)? Or is there any romantic stuff?
Do you think that such relationship with your mom affected your relationship with other girls (and your wife eventally)?
And what would you think if you would find out that your wife have the same relationship with your kid?
Just say this. If you already did this - then there is nothing dangerous in saying so taboo things.
And guys always appreciate open and straighforward conversation.
Just tell him straight away that you want to have sex with him.
Honesly, he could just be confused about - do you just like to tease him (like siblings love to tease each other - non-sexual) or you are really into him.
Because this is very scary to make a move and get "I was just teasing you, pervert!"
And why you didn't talk about it with your brother?
I think that first you need to directly tell your husband that you don't feel sexy, desired and loved.
If he wouldn't do anything with that ("oh, honey, just fuck off" or "i will do it... eventally") - then i think that your are clear.
Just tell you about your feelings.
This is the main question.
Then just talk about it with her.
When she is sober say that you find her attractive.