You really should tell her what you want and need, ask her to do the same. She will have fantasies she is scared to share but make her feel loved and supported and it may happen for both of you
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I have shared some fantasies and stuff with her that I've wanted but for some reason I'm scared to for this one. We've been married for years and she will not tell me any fantasies she's had. She said she never grew up thinking about stuff like that. She just tells me she wants to make me happy in the bedroom and that's it..but I mean a woman has to have SOME sort of fantasy right?

She definitely does, but getting her to share could be hard if not impossible. You could try and turn it around on her and say you want to do something special and out of the ordinary for her to show her how much you enjoy and love her. Tell her nothing is off limits, and that you would even find another guy to have sex with her because you are so sure of your place in her heart it would only be sex because you know she is your sole mate.
She probably won’t go for it but if you buy her a dildo and give it a name say frank or tony and introduce him into your sexlife. Even get her to fuck “Frank” in front of you. Once she cums and lets it fall out of her cunt, take it down your throat and tell her how good she tastes on Frank. It may take a while but you both could get what you want.
That's not a bad idea. I might have to try that. Thanks for taking the time to respond. Appreciate it.