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18 Sep 2013 10:04PM

You know it's sad but I have been here before with my last ex. I didn't have a kid with her but I was helping her take care of hers because I fell in love with both of me. I did fuck up hard core by cheating, but we had an open relationship it was kind of messed up. She honestly just didn't let it go and I tried everything I could to get her to forget what happened and move on with our lives. I spent so much money and I even let her have her bf's over at my apartment, because I thought that in the end she would realize I am better. There came a point where I was in a situation like you are in and I just told her that she needed to leave and I was done. We had some "comitments" together of things we paid on together I said fuck it I am not doing it anymore. It sucked hardcore but I just found out recently that she wants me back so hard right now. She left me to get with some rich guy and he wouldn't even fuck her, so she left him. Now she is wishing that we could get back together. I am in a great relationship how ever.

Sorry I got sidetracked. Here is what you need to do honestly man. Just sit down and really think about what is best for you and your daughter. Don't really worry about what's best for her because fuck her if she is doing this crap. Just think about what you need to do to make sure you and your daughter are happy because that's all that matters.

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18 Sep 2013 10:33PM

You are very very right. My vision should be on myself and my daughter. The best thing for real is to leave to head back upstate where I have family and friends. Out here it's her family and friends. I don't want to leave but if I stay, I'm basically spinning my wheels living with someone that can't get over my mess ups and trying to make it a perfect family. It would just hurt to leave my daughter. I can't afford anything since I live in NYC. I could maybe get a share with a bunch of people, but even then it's expensive and I would have to find the right people.

Thank you for sharing your story. There are a lot of parallels between ours. My friend from upstate said fuck trying to make her happy. She will just use it because it's there.

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