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Leilav

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29 Apr 2012 3:29PM

Some posts are very mean, but expected.

We haven't talked to each other still. I'm thinking that I went too far. We haven't slept together, and I don't think I should find out how he'd react if I offered it to him. I definitely don't want to hurt my family's reputation or get banned from my family. If I could go further without any sequences I would want to try, but that's too idealistic.

My position as a woman in my culture is perfectly fine. If you think otherwise, I advice you to take some culture-classes and/or visit Istanbul. My family also isn't Muslim, so think again.

I'll try and apologize to my brother, and ask him how he feels about it all. At least then I know a bit more about his thoughts.

Thanks everyone.

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Anonymous

29 Apr 2012 6:35PM

Leilav, you have to accept that obsessed thoughts are running through your head. If you keep entertaining it, it will keep going. Lucky that you are not a Muslim. But getting caught presents a very serious issue in Turkey.

Yes, talking is fine. He is your brother and will be protective of you. The best you can do right now is to talk to him and postpone going any further until both of you aren't so insane, and in a very safe situation. It might be a holiday away from people you know, then if you are both in sound minds, do it in secret. If you let it go crazy and fuck everywhere, I promise you, someone will find out.

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