Say youre almost 40 and your only sexual experiences are some adolescent "playing around" with your sister, mostly handplay and oral but some "just the tip" fucking... when dealing with other girls, do you consider yourself a virgin or what?
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Good amount of oral/hand experience with others since, but it's still a big psych out.

Consider yourself not a virgin and simply claim that you lost it at a very early age. This will take your mind off the concern and boosts your confidence should you see it as something that you understood faster than most. Male virgins technically aren't real anyway; only female virgins who haven't had someone inside them before. You can physically find out if a girl's not a virgin, but you can't a guy.

virgin is a female term like maiden. you can't have lost your virginity because you never had a virgin skin to loose.