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02 Aug 2012 9:10PM

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i want to know if my girlfriend's best friend likes me.

sometimes she spends the night at our place, and most times in the morning i come out of our bedroom before my gf. usually the friend is still laying in the pullout.
many times i've come out of my bed, and layed with the girl on the pullout. we flirt, but mostly over time we gotten into snuggling into each other and kinda lay on each other.
this whole time she's wearing a tshirt no bra. the other morning, i was laying on her chest,my cheek pressed into her breasts. she was slowly caressing my hair.
other times i've been laying on her shoulder, with my hand slightly under her shirt, slowly rubbing her stomach with my fingers. she never stops me, or avoids the situation blatently, and we dont ever mention it to anyone.

is there any chance im possibly misreading this? maybe she's just being a pal. i dont know. any advice guys n gals??

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Anonymous

02 Aug 2012 9:14PM

she may have gotten abused as a kid and wants you to rape her hard. that's what it sounds like to me.

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Anonymous

02 Aug 2012 9:17PM

she likes you. it's really fucking obvious.
go for it

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Anonymous

02 Aug 2012 9:58PM

Ask her!!! tell her how you feel dummy

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Anonymous

02 Aug 2012 9:58PM

How old r u & her?

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Anonymous

02 Aug 2012 10:25PM

we're both in our early 20s

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02 Aug 2012 10:14PM

Um, dude, it's possible you're with the wrong one of the two girls if you'd rather cuddle with her than your girlfriend, but that's going to be one hell of a horrible mess and you never know who might get the short end of the stick. I see no good ending to this.

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Anonymous

02 Aug 2012 10:23PM

OP here. sometimes it feels like she would totally go for it if i made a move. but i also think her loyalty stops her from doing anything too heavy with me.
my girlfriend has no problem with me flirting with her friend, she just doesnt know about the early morning stuff.
also, i've told my girlfriend that i fantasise about the both of them having sex with me at once. she just says "i dont think she's the type of girl who'd go into that honey, sorry. i would, i just think she's not into other girls at all".

so eventhough i do cuddle with this girl, im almost certain if i told my girlfriend about it, she wouldnt be too mad.

so maybe it's just that her friend would love to fuck me, she's just stuck between a rock and a hard place. if she does it, she could lose her friend or things get weird.

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Anonymous

02 Aug 2012 11:18PM

Why does she have to be into girls :)

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Anonymous

02 Aug 2012 11:44PM

OP here. good point. i think we've all assumed threesomes implied the females touching each other. maybe even the idea of watching the other get fucked is weird to them? they've been friends for most of their lives

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Anonymous

02 Aug 2012 10:35PM

Get them both drunk and send your girlfriend to sleep and then make friend talk about you.lol

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Anonymous

02 Aug 2012 11:47PM

OP here. i think letting this build up until it explodes could be bad.
maybe i'll talk to my girlfriend about how i feel about her friend, and maybe next time me and the friend are alone i'll point blank tell her i want to have at least one sexual encounter with her (with my gf's consent of course) and ask her how she feels about the idea of being with me in that way.

ill be pretty casual about the whole thing, act like it's no big deal and make sure she knows it wont be weird after

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Anonymous

03 Aug 2012 12:21AM

OP again. my girlfriend is pretty understanding about these things. maybe it's one of those things that i need to get out of my system. maybe i won't lust after her friend so hard if i get it over with.

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Anonymous

03 Aug 2012 11:55AM

gay

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